A Guide To Gifting Vibrators: Why, How, Dos And Don'ts

We are at the end of 2022, and it’s time for gifts! Be it seasonal gifts or birthday gifts, it’s quite rare to find a vibrator on the gift list. But hey, why not? Of course, it’s not a yearly salon and spa membership or AirPods. So, it’s not like we can gift a random vibrator to just anyone. We do need to consider the why, who, and how before gifting a vibrator. With that being said, if we want our gift to be creative and unique, why not consider a vibrator? Here’s a guide to help you gift a vibrator to gal pals.

A guide to gifting vibrators to gal pals

Why gift a vibrator?

• Even those people who have open conversations about sex might shy away from buying a vibrator. So, if we have a friend who fits this description, gifting her a vibrator would definitely be a great idea. By gifting a vibrator, we are actually taking that first step for them, giving them a gentle nudge to break free from whatever is holding them back.
• Gifting a vibrator is more than just an object to masturbate with; it is a form of encouragement to normalise self-pleasure and self-exploration.
• A lot of us are reluctant to spend on certain things, and sex toys would top that list. But then, sexual pleasure is normal and healthy. And it’s definitely a worthy gift for someone who has the interest and willingness to experiment.
• We emphasise the importance of self-love, self-care, and me-time. That surely includes self-pleasure because we are taking care of ourselves, spending some me-time, and making ourselves feel good and happy.

How do I gift a vibrator?

• Communication is vital.

A vibrator, or any sex toy, for that matter, shouldn’t be a complete surprise gift. Say I’m going to gift a vibrator to my best friend, I would send her related articles or videos to start a conversation about self-pleasure. Only then would I know what her opinion is and if she is interested in the concept of self-pleasure itself. Or, if we have already been having open conversations, I would still drop subtle hints and try to know specifics so that I can get her something she will really like.

• Go for classic and simple.

Unless we know the recipient's exact preferences, it is best to stick with classic and simple products. If I'm personally perplexed, I'll bring the friend along under the guise of shopping. If I'm shopping online, I'll probably have her sit next to me and let her choose, so it's still a surprise.

Who can I gift a vibrator to?

Vibrators have evolved from bachelorette party gifts to something that friends casually give each other. Sex talk is no longer a taboo topic, at least among the current generation. Many gynaecologists, psychologists, and sexual educators recommend vibrators to their clients. Nonetheless, vibrators are a highly personal item. So, they can only be gifted to our closest friends and people in our innermost circle.

Just remember!

Never gift a vibrator as a prank to anyone, besties included. Never gift a vibrator in a public space like a family gathering or workplace.

So, no more dilemmas. If this friendship is as close as Jane, Sutton, and Kat from The Bold Type, go ahead and gift it.  Just ensure that it doesn’t drop like a bombshell.

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