Planning A Solo Trip This Summer? Here Are 5 Takeways From My Experience

How many times have you been terrified to say 'yes' to a vacation that entailed going out and conquering the world by yourself? As women, most of us have faced the dilemma of opting for Solo Travelling while simultaneously being concerned about the consequences.

Those who do take the leap are frequently met with comments of surprise and awe. Having solo travelled alone for the previous two years, I frequently encounter comments that elevate me and praise me for "being brave." Those who have travelled alone would probably understand. Those who haven't can still see where this is coming from.

The State of Solo Travelling

There has been an increase in the amount of literature on solo travelling, as well as a surge in the number of blogs and travelogues that have defined the position of solo female travellers. This global community of solo travellers, although being put in varied environments and having diverse experiences, may have some agreement on one question: Is it safe to travel alone?

I've encountered a number of unpleasant circumstances and conditions that are far from safe. However, it is vital to grasp what the term 'safe' means in this context. We have been conditioned for far too long to believe that we are better off inside our homes. Even when we go out, we need a male partner to help us negotiate our requirements. This is true in all areas, including travel. Let's be honest: Women's travel is quite different from men's. We must be continuously aware of our surroundings and the people around us, making intentional attempts to present ourselves in order to avoid catcalling or threats of attack.

Here are some of my takeaways from my solo travelling experience:

Prefer public transport for commuting

There are a number of firms that offer specific taxis for women for pickups and drops as well as commuting. While taxis and cabs are more convenient and pleasant, I still prefer public transportation. When you're on a tight budget and solo travelling, they're your best bet. They help you to have a better understanding of the local culture, geography, and people, which is an engaging experience in and of itself. More significantly, you will not feel out of place. There will always be someone attempting to strike up a conversation, and if you are the type that enjoys making the first move, you will be spoiled for choice.

Respecting cultural boundaries

Travelling frequently means seeing countries with significantly different cultures than your own. We frequently find ourselves in quandaries when dealing with situations that necessitate either standing up for what is right or conforming to what the area and its inhabitants stand for. I've seen countless similar scenarios, and in such cases, it's best to stick to the latter. While you may always engage in conscious dialogues and strive to advocate for others, you must also consider their viewpoints and recognise that they are frequently a part of their cultural setting. This generally entails dressing in a way that allows you to interact with the crowd and avoid making controversial comments.

Plan your stay in hostels or dormitories

If you're travelling alone, hostel or dorm rooms are the best option. They are less expensive than hotels and allow you to engage and interact with other tourists. Home-stay is another option that has grown in popularity recently and is an excellent way to organise your visit.

Keep Your Paperwork Handy

This is especially important for gender nonconforming tourists, as most nations and localities do not allow you to change the gender marker on your passport. To avoid such difficulties, it is preferable to update your passports and visas ahead of time. A fast search for the various paperwork necessary to visit various countries can provide you with previous knowledge and help you stay prepared.

Vitality Of Planning And Research For Solo Travelling

I cannot emphasise how important planning and research are. While most of us like spontaneity, it is vital to have appropriate knowledge about an unknown location to facilitate navigation. You know what to expect ahead of time and will thus be ready to react to the needs of the situation. The internet is brimming with destination-specific travel guides that describe everything from the top sightseeing spots to the best places to dine. Such guides are useful in providing you with the necessary information to move around and enjoy your stay to the best of your ability.

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