Ours is a world of exploring, whether it comes to a cosmic phenomenon or an orgasmic phenomenon. People are always experimenting with new positions, props, toys, and role plays when it comes to spicing up their sex life. However, these not always are experiences that are pleasurable.
People were into kinky stuff when it came to sex even before Fifty Shades Of Grey was released. It only exposed the few ones who weren't aware of such kinky stuff. People are getting comfortable talking about their sexual preferences and experimenting with new sexual activities. They search on the web and online forums or get inspired by videos and movies. However, some sexual activities are not as pleasurable in real life as they do in the reel world and you only realize it once you have already done it.
A Reddit thread on @AskReddit asked
users-
"What's something sexual you tried but realized you were not into?"
Sexual Activities That Went Wrong
The comment section was equally hilarious and eye-opening for those who were looking forward to doing such stuff. One of the users commented, "Had my husband fuck a cake once, turns out it wasn't as erotic as I thought it would be." A lot of times we think that doing dirty activities like rolling in mud or fucking a cake would be stimulating and exciting. However, it is not only unhygienic but a little disgusting and messy when you actually witness it. Not to forget, it doesn't really excite you much as sex is meant to be comfortable and pleasurable, not messy and dirty.
Another user wrote, "Humiliation. I can be a bit of a brat/sub and it was just kind of the next step. Yeah no. I like to be a “good girl” not a “little bitch” lol". Dominant kinks are usually very glorified in romance novels and movies. However, submissive activities and dirty talking to the point of humiliation also take a toll on you if you are not accustomed to that type of language. Often the dominant person has to level things by aftercare and reassure their partner that it was just random words that turn them on and not an insult. Without aftercare, it is not so pleasurable and you might be skeptical about doing it again.
A user talked about their girlfriend wanting to try Nyotaimori which is a sexual activity in which a person eats sushi off a naked woman's body. "It wasn't horrifying or anything but it just makes the sushi room temp and I couldn't really do anything with her until I ate it all and by that point, I was way too full of lukewarm fish to enjoy the rest of sexy time". Well, that is true, you don't want to be bloated or full when you have sex. Such stuff looks sexy when done in movies but can be uncomfortable when done in reality.
There are a lot many activities like choking, slapping, forced sex, etc. Which may look pleasing and appealing in videos and you expect them to be nice in doing as well. However, sexual activities get different reactions from different people as not everyone has the same mindset. It is the past experiences, lifestyle, and habits of a person that can make even the sexiest thing bland and even the most simple thing arousing. But then again, you won't know until you try.
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