Imagine you're on your way to work, college, or any other destination, Simply going about your day, suddenly, something catches your eye—a person, standing alone, starts dancing wildly. It could be a bustling metro station, a crowded train platform, or even an airport terminal. You find yourself witnessing an impromptu performance, perhaps to a catchy Bollywood tune or a popular song. While some may find it amusing or entertaining, for many others, it's anything but comfortable. While bewildered onlookers exchange glances of confusion and mutter disapprovingly, the performer remains unbothered, seemingly fueled by the desire for online approval.
From Likes To Discomfort
These occurrences have become increasingly common in recent months, reflecting a larger trend towards turning personal expression into a commodity and chasing after online popularity at any cost. Whether it's someone breaking into Bollywood-inspired moves at Mumbai airport or an anonymous individual twerking on the Delhi metro, the message is clear: people are willing to sacrifice public comfort for the sake of digital validation.
The performers, driven by the desire for online attention and validation, seem oblivious to the discomfort they may be causing those around them. As they enjoy the virtual applause of likes and shares, commuters and bystanders are left feeling awkward and uneasy.
The rise of social media platforms has transformed the way we communicate, connect, and share content with others. What was once a private moment or a spontaneous expression of joy has now become fodder for digital consumption, eagerly devoured by millions of users craving their daily dose of entertainment. But what happens when these moments of self-expression spill over into the public sphere, disrupting the normal flow of daily life and infringing upon the comfort of others?
Woman Endangers Child For Views
Several social media users have gone to extreme lengths to go viral. In one such instance, a woman put herself and a child in a dangerous situation just for the sake of a reel. In the video reposted to X, the woman is seen sitting at the edge of a deep well with a child clinging to her leg. The X user, @RawAndRealMan, captioned the video, "Parental Alienation."
The woman's reckless behaviour has sparked criticism from netizens, who expressed concern over the child's safety. "Only for view people can do everything even risk own child life so ridiculous," wrote one user. "She should be in jail," another said. A third questioned, "Any legal action against this woman for risking the life a child?"
Family court in custody case: Only mother can love child more. Even more than father.
— Raw and Real Man (@RawAndRealMan) September 18, 2024
Le mother:#ParentalAlienation pic.twitter.com/mc1kl5ziFj
Woman Dances In Rain In Middle Of Busy Street
A viral reel of a woman dancing in the rain on a busy street has garnered criticism over safety concerns. The woman, reportedly from Uttar Pradesh, was seen prancing around in the heavy rain on the street as vehicles sped past her. An X user brought the dangers of the act to attention. "Look how she is dancing in the middle of the street. So basically, the reel is more important than her life," user @Nishantjournali wrote.
रील बनाने का भूत अब भाभियों और आंटियों को ज्यादा चढ़ रहा है ,😜
— निशान्त शर्मा (भारद्वाज) (@Nishantjournali) August 19, 2024
देखिए VIDEO बीच सड़क पर किस तरीके से ठुमके लगाए जा रहे हैं ,और पीछे से वाहन तेज गति में आ रहे हैं ,गाड़ी की छत से कूद कर सड़क की व्हाइट लाइन भी आउट कर दी! मतलब सीधा रील बनानी है चाहे जान चली जाए? #viralreelsシ… pic.twitter.com/wRlonhxO6I
Netizens slammed the creator of the video saying it was a "public nuisance". An X user commented that the addiction to making reels is an illness. Another concurred, "This sickness is spreading." Soon, the video caught the attention of UP Traffic Police. "Please provide vehicle number, date, time, and place," they wrote.
Woman Records Reel Of Ugly Physical Altercation In Public
A reel has been going viral where a woman is seen recording in public while a group of girls are having a ruthless physical fight in the background. The video was shot at a busy tourist site in Shimla, Himachal Pradesh. The woman is now facing criticism for turning the altercation into an opportunity for a reel. Many social media users dubbed the video insensitive while some others found it "cringe".
Over the last 2-3 years, Shimla's Ridge has become a hotspot for cringe activities. Reel makers have taken over this place, and daily such nonsense videos are made.
— Nikhil saini (@iNikhilsaini) July 26, 2024
A viral video on internet shows a girl making a reel during a fight ! Instead of stopping it they use it to make… pic.twitter.com/K0XvvwuJ8H
A social media user by the name of Nikhil Saini brought attention to the reel. He wrote on X, "Requesting the local administration to place strict laws against such people and protect our public places." Another netizen concurred and wrote in the comments, "These iconic spots deserve respect and preservation. At least, a home guard or police personnel should be stationed there to manage and prevent such misuse."
Passenger’s Dance on Flight Sparks Online Debate
A now-viral video shared by Instagram user Salma Sheikh has stirred a debate online. In the clip, the woman is seen wearing a black saree and dancing in the aisle of an aircraft. She performed the song Style Style by AR Rahman and SP Balasubrahmanyam while other passengers looked on and the flight crew attended to their duties.
The Instagram reel has gained significant attention, with over 1.6 million views and 16,000 likes since it was posted. However, the video has also faced backlash from many internet users who found her actions inappropriate. The video has clearly divided opinions, with some people questioning Salma's choice to dance on a plane, while others acknowledge her boldness in sharing the moment publicly.
The Delhi Metro Incident
Similarly, incidents aboard the Delhi metro have garnered widespread attention and condemnation. In one viral video, an unidentified woman was seen engaging in 'explicit' dance moves, including twerking and belly dancing, much to the bewilderment of fellow passengers. Witnesses described scenes of discomfort and disbelief as the woman unabashedly gyrated and gestured, seemingly unfazed by the discomfort of those around her.
The video, claimed by Instagram user @manishadancer, quickly went viral, provoking a barrage of criticism and calls for retaliation in online communities.
The Line Between Talent And Sensationalism
At the core of the issue lies a fundamental question: where do we draw the line between genuine talent and gratuitous sensationalism? While there's no denying the value of self-expression and creative freedom, it's essential to consider the context and impact of our actions on others. What may seem like harmless fun or a bid for online fame to some can be deeply unsettling and intrusive to others, particularly in shared public spaces.
We need a law against this asap pic.twitter.com/3qH1aom1Ml
— Madhur Singh (@ThePlacardGuy) March 23, 2024
Consider a different situation on the Delhi metro, where two teenage girls were video themselves participating in a Holi celebration, dressed in traditional Indian attire, applying coloured powder to one another's faces, and making intimate gestures. While the girls may have intended it as a lighthearted homage to the festival of colours, many viewers found their behaviour inappropriate for a public setting, which sparked outrage and calls for action, leading to an investigation by Delhi police and the Delhi Metro Rail Corporation (DMRC).
A Need For Boundaries
While there's nothing wrong with showcasing talent, there's a time and place for everything. Public spaces are meant for everyone to share and enjoy, not for individuals to use as their personal stage for gaining online fame. It's important to differentiate between genuine expressions of talent and attention-seeking behaviour that disrupts others.
In the case of the woman dancing at Mumbai airport, some people defended her actions, arguing that she was simply expressing herself and spreading joy. However, others felt that her behaviour was disrespectful and inappropriate for a public place. Similarly, the girls celebrating Holi on the metro may have been innocently recreating a scene from a movie, but their actions made many passengers uncomfortable.
While social media offers a platform for self-expression and creativity, it shouldn't come at the expense of others' comfort and well-being. We need to strike a balance between sharing our talents and respecting the boundaries of public spaces. Ultimately, the solution lies in promoting empathy and awareness among individuals. Before posting a video online or engaging in public behaviour, we should pause to consider how it might affect those around us.
Views expressed are the author's own.