Sikh Woman Remarried: An 18-year-old woman named Manmeet Kaur in Jammu and Kashmir was reportedly handed over to her family members after her alleged abduction. The woman was then married in a gurudwara to a Sikh man on June 27.
While a report by Indian Express with police sources state the woman was legally married to a Muslim man in J&K, Shiromani Akali Dal (SAD) president of Delhi Paramjit Singh gave his statement and claimed that the woman was not married before.
He said, “The girl was married to Sukhbir Singh today. They knew each other and there was no coercion or force used (against the girl).”
“We do not want any (anti-conversion) law. The majority community has to take care of the minority community," he had added. The police reportedly said that Manmeet Kaur in her statement to Magistrate in Jammu and Kashmir High Court had said that she married the Muslim man out of her own free will.
As per a report by The Kashmir Walla, Manmeet Kaur had changed her name to Zoya after marrying a man named Shahid Bhat. The report also carried her statement which she had given in an undertaking in an affidavit. Her statement read, "I have reverted to Islam before more (sic) than a year and am practising Muslim right now (sic), I was influenced by the way Muslim live their life and the teachings of Islam."
Manmeet Singh Sirsa, head of the Delhi Sikh Gurdwara Management Committee (DSGMC) and SAD, claimed that the woman was “abducted at gunpoint and married to a 60-year-old
The incident after coming to the limelight showed up in media reports with varying details. The Muslim man Shahid Bhat is currently in the custody of police in Jammu and Kashmir as he is accused of kidnapping the 18-year-old, according to a report by Quint.
Sikh woman remarried in the community: How social media reacted
Social media users which included many prominent personalities, Sikh women and other factions started to post about the incident.
It's strange how they separated the woman from her legal husband without her will. This type of forced separation will definately set a bad example of sikh community.
— Shameela (@shaikhshameela) July 1, 2021
Institution of marriage must ab respected, this is clearly a case of of forcefully breaking a family. https://t.co/PHKYKDRbBJ
Conversations around a woman's agency and her own will being disrespected took shape. As many alleged it to a case of politicising an inter-faith marriage while many alleged it to a case of 'love jihad'.
Can't get over the pic of the Sikh woman married to the man her parents chose.She looks sad,he is smiling.After the news fades,will anyone follow up what happened to the woman wrt the husband?I know many men who can't even bear the idea of their wives havin had past love interest
— Ashwaq M (@ashwaqM) July 1, 2021
Some also expressed their opinions on how the woman was allegedly stripped of her family and made to marry a man who was of her community.
Sikh woman from UP faced intense pressure from local Hindu vigilantes, Muslim arrested.
— Sabah (@_sabahgurmat) July 1, 2021
Anyone saying "all people have always been bigots" is obscuring the powers that be. Incarcerating Muslim men never happened this way. It is a fully political project, led by a party & ideology https://t.co/6et46p6xdC
A few users on the microblogging site raised the matter of preserving a community and the marriage of the 18-year-old a 'rape victim'. There have been no reports of sexual crime against the woman.
Massive respect for Sikh boy who married the girl. In fairly, peaceful areas where the demography is still intact, many wouldn’t have dared to marry for societal prestige. Let’s not even talk about the plight of rape victims. Their marriage is xtremely difficult.
— VigilantEyes (@WomanHindu) July 1, 2021
There are two ways to look at Kashmir case:
— Swati Goel Sharma (@swati_gs) July 1, 2021
1. A patriarchal community killed an adult woman's agency to choose for herself, forced her to marry their choice in the name of saving religion
2. A determined community snatched its woman from predatory conversion-nikah trap
1 or 2?
Here's how people reacted to the incident:
What the PEW data on interfaith marriage really tells you is god forbid a woman has a heart of her own. And if she couples it with a mind of her own, baap re baap they all have a hissy fit. That said I will repeat : the real problem is the premium placed on women getting married
— barkha dutt (@BDUTT) July 1, 2021
The right question is why did the women have to convert ?
— AndolanJivi Kisan (@AndTheTruth15) June 30, 2021
Why couldn’t the Muslim man become Sikh if they both had to be the same religion.
What kind of marriage is that where woman has to give up her family, community and beliefs ?
How prone to exploitation will she be ? https://t.co/Rz6FgabKTb
An adult Sikh woman who married a Muslim man she loved,was illegally separated from her husband,'handed over'2 her family,reconverted to her prev religion& now 'given' to a man of her own community
— Arfa Khanum Sherwani (@khanumarfa) July 1, 2021
This is what your 'collective conscience'allows.
This is how morally dead you are
I am a Sikh woman who married out of my choice to a Non Sikh.
— Simrat Kaur ☬ (@SimmiKaurKhalsa) June 29, 2021
Who are you to tell Sikh women whom to marry? pic.twitter.com/F5Msv2Lhsb
Tu kaun e? I am a Sikh. And a woman. Even my father always said you decide. Who are you!
— chandana bawa (@koyal19) June 29, 2021