Anupamaa is a Hindi TV show that is very popular among the youth and middle-aged. It gathered a lot of fan following because of its modern take on portraying the story of a middle-aged woman living her life on her terms.
Anupamaa is one of the few Hindi TV serials that talks about the desires of a woman beyond her family, irrespective of her age and dreams and aspirations. The show starring Rupali Ganguly, Sudhanshu Pandey, Gaurav Khanna and Madalsa Sharma in lead roles showcases various stories and point-of-views that you will relate to. The protagonist of the show, Anupamaa, is a 45-year-old, mother of three and was a dedicated, often neglected, homemaker for 25 years. But after she realises she is being cheated by her husband she decides to take the reins of her own life exploring her talents, worth, ambitions, career, friends and also, love.
5 Things That Make Anupamaa A Feminist Hindi TV Serial
Making Women Realise That They Have a life beyond The House And Kitchen
Anupamaa spent her entire life in the kitchen, her desires were not fulfilled, she was neglected and was mocked by her own family. Yet she was devoted to them. However, she soon realised that while some people were happy about her progress and career ambitions, others opposed the idea strongly.
Divorce Is Normal And The Wife Is Not Responsible For A Cheating Husband
Anupamaa was called names and criticised for filing a divorce. She was told to 'deal with it,' 'he's your husband after all', 'forgive him', 'give him a second chance' and even stuff like 'you were so behenji types so he went for a modern woman'. She was even blamed for the divorce when her husband did wrong. But that did not make her step back. She stood with her dignity and self-respect, with pride and confidence as she never did anything wrong and she did not have to feel guilty.
Being Friends With Your Ex's Current Wife Is Normal
When her ex's wife was assaulted, Anupamaa helped and supported her. She even helped her when things got rough between her husband and his girlfriend. From giving relationship advice to life lessons on self-respect and offering her a job at her company, she never tried to push her down out of jealousy.
Starting A Business At 45 Is Normal
After the divorce, Anupamaa wanted to be completely independent, emotionally and financially. So she decided to earn her own money instead of asking for alimony. She began with online dance classes and went on to open her academy. She even helped her ex open a café when he lost his job, supporting him in his start-up after 45.
Finding Love At 45, After A Divorce And Having Three Children Is Normal
Anupamaa had lost all her hope in love when her first love, her husband cheated on her. The entry of her former college-mate who had a crush on her for 26 years made things a little harsh for her as everyone judged their friendship. Society, her kids, in-laws, thought that it was more than friendship. But she stood strongly with her declaration that they were nothing more than friends.
And when she realised she had fallen in love with him and that he is the one she deserves, she still stood strong with her decision to stay by his side
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