Actor-filmmaker Farhan Akhtar, the first male UN Women Ambassador for South Asia, and the force behind the MARD- Men Against Rape and Discrimination Campaign, has written two poems about sexual assault. He has also written a letter on gender issues to his daughter, as part of the same campaign.
The poems are part of Hindustan Times’ 8 part series ‘Let’s Talk About Rape’ where prominent Indians will write letters discussing the reality of sexual assault in this country.
One of Akhtar’s poems is addressed to a five-year-old victim in Bangalore and expresses his anguish at the situation.
Here is an excerpt of the poem taken from the Hindustan Times.
I see you little girl
tears in your eyes
bruises on your body
blood on your thighs
I hear you little girl
your whimpers your cries
your silenced protest
your resonating sighs ...
You can read the entire poem here
It ends with:
I stand with you little girl.
The second poem, addressed to a young woman, tries to offer words of hope and solace.
When life breaks you
pick up the pieces
Stick them back together
Smoothen out the creases
Brush off the dirt
Re-apply the colour
Polish the rough edges
Shine up what’s duller
And when you’re done
creating this new person
Just let in some love
To complete your new version.
Be all that you can be
Be fearless my child, Be free
When people get you down
Tell you you’re wrong
You’ve got to believe in yourself
Remember you’re strong ...
You can read the entire poem here
In the letter to his 16-year-old daughter, Akhtar talks about how women are portrayed in Bollywood and how he needs to be wary of this as a filmmaker.
“Stalking, unfortunately, has become a mutated form of cinematic romance,” wrote Akhtar.
He also urges his daughter to live her life the way she wants to but to remember to be safe and to have her wits about her. He says that there are certain realities around us, and that we live in an unsafe, unequal world. He expresses his understanding of his daughter’s frustration and her wish to be free in the true sense of the word.
He ends by saying that he will always stand by her daughter as she navigates growing up in the country.