Berlin: How World's First Lesbian-Only Cemetery Creates Inclusivity History

In a groundbreaking move for LGBTQ+ communities, Berlin inaugurated the world’s first lesbian-only cemetery in 2014. This initiative sets aside a 400-square-meter section of the Lutheran Georgen Parochial cemetery specifically for lesbians, with the capacity to accommodate up to 80 individuals. This innovative project was brought to life by the Safia Association, a national organization dedicated to the welfare of elderly lesbians.

A Unique Burial Space

The designated area within the cemetery will be meticulously cleaned, landscaped, and maintained by Safia, ensuring a dignified and serene final resting place for its members. The organization envisions this space as a venue “where life and death connect, distinctive forms of cemetery culture can develop, and where the lesbian community can live together in the afterlife.”

Dr. Astrid Osterland, a prominent Safia member, emphasized that the initiative is not exclusionary. While the primary focus is on providing a dedicated space for lesbians, the cemetery section is technically open to men and heterosexual women as well. However, the intent is to prioritise the bonds and community spirit among lesbians. “We are the first real generation of emancipated, feminist, open lesbians, and we need somewhere to be buried,” Osterland stated.

Addressing Criticism and Ensuring Inclusivity

Despite some criticisms from local media about the exclusivity of the cemetery, Osterland clarified that the project is not intended to exclude anyone. Men and heterosexual women are not prohibited from being buried there, though lesbians will be given preference. “There is no reason to be buried anonymously anymore, and like everyone else, I want to lie with the people I've fought with,” she said, highlighting the importance of maintaining community bonds even in death.

Safia's Mission and Vision

Safia, which boasts around 500 members, mostly lesbians over the age of 40, views this cemetery as a "living project for after death." Osterland explained that many members live alone and face the prospect of ageing without close family ties. This cemetery offers a solution, ensuring they are surrounded by a supportive community even after passing.

After three years of searching, Safia found an ideal location in northern Berlin's Prenzlauer Berg district. The cemetery area includes approximately 50 plots for coffins and additional space for urns. So far, around 20 individuals have expressed interest in securing a spot.

Funding and Future Prospects

The project is entirely funded by the Safia association, with no financial support from the state. Maintenance and upkeep will be managed by the women of the association. Osterland mentioned that while there are currently no plans to establish similar cemeteries elsewhere, the possibility has not been ruled out. “I hope this can be an example,” she said, although the current focus remains on managing the Berlin site.

This pioneering cemetery underscores the ongoing efforts to recognize and cater to the diverse needs of the LGBTQ+ community, providing a sense of belonging and continuity beyond life.