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Ladies, do yourself a favor: travel solo at least once

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Adventurous Miriam
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Ladies, do yourself a favor: travel solo at least once
Travel solo as a woman
My first solo trip was to Indonesia
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It has never been a dream of mine to travel alone. I just didn't think it would be fun doing it solo, and frankly, I was probably also afraid of looking like a loser and like I didn't have anybody.

But last summer I sent myself to Indonesia. Did I get a nervous breakdown when I found myself alone in an empty hotel room? Yes, I did. And it surprised me.

I think everyone - male or female - should travel alone at some point in their life. It might seem scary and you may have a rough start like I did. But overcoming that fear and really spending time by myself was one of the best things I've ever done for me.

"Traveling alone doesn't mean you're lonely."

THE CHALLENGES I FACE AS A WOMEN

Travel solo as a woman

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In some regards, traveling solo is different for men and women. Men face dangers too, but they have an easier go at gender equality issues around the world.

There is that one fear that probably all women have, and that is rape. It's a fear I have, a fear my mother have for me, and a fear that most of my friends share, too. But truth is that the same risk is present in my own country. Women also get harassed and raped in Denmark, even where they feel most safe. This fear is not restricted to traveling solo.

Despite my fears, I've learned that traveling solo as a woman is much safer than I thought. In fact, I didn't give it that much thought when I was away. The hardest part about traveling solo isn't harassment as I feared. It's making decisions about when to leave for the airport, where to eat or which tour to join. Small, everyday things that I learned along the way.

"Traveling solo is one of the best ways to challenge and get to know oneself."

SOME PRECAUTIONS I TOOK

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Trust your instincts

The first thing I recommend to any traveler is to trust your instinct. If something doesn't feel right, don't do it. And if you're afraid to walk home, take a taxi. You only have yourself to rely on so trust your gut and you will gain more confidence.

Come prepared

I always research a place before I visit. I check restaurants, activities, transportation and dangers. For instance, when I went to Bali I read up on the most common scams, so when someone tried to scam me, I told him off. Don't know how to do this? Not to worry because you learn, fast.

Bring a doorstop and a safety whistle

You can buy this cheep on Amazon. And even though you probably won't need it, it's a good safety precaution.

Involve others in your travel plans

Tell you family and friends where you're going and which hotel you're staying at. By updating my family of my whereabouts, I felt safe every step of the way.

Understand the culture 

When I visit a new country, I try to understand the cultural norms. How? By reading blogs, searching Wikipedia and just googling around. Pay attention to local customs and it's easier to stay out of trouble.

"Despite all my fears, I've never been less alone than when I traveled alone."

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WHAT SOLO TRAVEL HAS TAUGHT ME

Travel solo as a woman

People look out of you, especially if you're a woman. 

In general, people are helpful to those who travel alone. Others look out for you, and I've experienced many times that they want to escort me to make sure I arrive safely.

Sign up for day tours to meet new people. 

Want to meet new people? Join a tour. Both couples and solo travelers join tours like cooking classes, bike tripsvolcano tours and much more. This is a great way to be social and meet new friends and alike.

You rarely feel lonely. 

In the 4 weeks I was traveling solo, I never felt lonely. I chose to spend most of the time alone, but I knew where to find other people if I wanted. Personally, I become much more outgoing when I'm by myself than when I'm traveling with a partner. And hostel managers, waiters, drivers and fellow travelers love to chat. Be open, and you will never feel lonely.

WHY YOU SHOULD GO

Travel solo as a woman

My advice is to just take the plunge. You don't have to be away for a month or even a week. A day or a weekend away is cathartic. Why? Because it's healthy to spend time by yourself. You decide where you want to go and what you want to do.

If you're going on a longer trip, start out with a safe destination like Southeast Asia. I highly recommend ThailandSingapore and Bali.

Solo travel is one of the best ways to learn and challenge oneself. You may feel scared. You may feel as if you could never stop being afraid no matter how hard you try. I think getting over that fear is such a powerful thing to give yourself as a woman.

"Travel by yourself and independence is yours."

BLOGGING CONTEST

I wrote this post in collaboration with SheThePeople to help women of the future raise the bar. They're running a contest on the topic ‘Women in Leadership’ where you can win an all-paid expense trip to an exciting destination, iPads, Kindles and more.

To enter, follow the link below and post a blog article about women, strenght and leadership. Deadline is 12 noon, June 1st 2015.

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